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more heartless and vicious the average women is to him than the average guy is to a woman.
It's always amazing to me to see men HERE (Brightstar, et al) unleash the ugliest vitriol against women while exclaiming at the same time that WOMEN hate men, yada yada. Then women here naturally call them on it, and the men have proof that all women are mean, heartless, man-hating users!
I am reading the Nora Vincent book this week and I have to tell you, I am shocked at how I have apparently been correct after all about how little most women think of men and how mean women are to men as a natural course (thus in women's minds validating their attacks against me on this board- because I am correct and calling their bullshit)
Reading her book made me truly realize that most women do carry a massive chip on their shoulder and wield it against innocent guys like me who have NEVER been less than good to ANY WOMAN. So the lack of love or affection I feel emanating from most women is NOT about me, it is about women being unable to forgive ALL MEN for the behavior of the losers they have been
deliberately choosing to cavort with all these years.
This makes me realize I need to begin calling women on their bullshit behavior toward me in front of their faces. I deserve better. I am a good person, a decent human being, and I am not the dirtbag they slept with last week, meaning I deserve to be treated BETTER.
Women make all these demands that men treat them better. GOD FORBID men begin to ask the SAME from women, huh?
Anyway he whole book made me despise women more than I ever imagined I could. I despised them for what I perceived to be secretive game playing- for instance when women will bluff a guy into admitting he likes her, then she acts disgusted towards him and pulls away. If women truly feel that superior to men because they hold the key to the gate, then why are women so self hating and vicious? You would think women would revel in their power over men.
Anyway, it validates completely what I have believed about women for a long time, that most have ZERO heart for men and only use men to get what they need, be it attention, validation, 'love', money...
Needless to say, time for me to be LESS FORGIVING of women and MORE FORGIVING of myself.
one key reason there are not many unique female characters is because men in society are encouraged to become unique (unique is 'valuable', thus he becomes 'lovable' by a woman) while women tend to follow their leaders, the alpha women, and imitate them, to the extent that they sublimate their own individuality, a sort of self imposed Valley of the Dolls. So they follow cliques, be it the blonde bimbo clique, or the sporty lesbian clique, or the punk street urchin clique, or any of the other flavors of stereotyppical female roles that women glom onto. Obviously, there are exceptions, the geek girl thing seems to appeal to women who really DO want to be unique and not follow the crowd. Needless to say, women's roles are paltry compared to men's because women are rarely GENERATING THEM.
But really, with all respect to the South African woman posting on here, a study came out last year that brought light to the fact that girls are refusing to study computer science, calling it 'boring', 'nerdy'. Anything but 'profitable', 'valuable', 'interesting', or 'sexy'.
Is the so called flying demon patriarchy to blame for the fact that women PREFER to color their nails, watch Oprah, and manipulate their boyfriends instead of being valuable decent people who men can actually respect?
As I always say, easier (and more profitable) to piss and moan for women than to actually DO something.
Filipina, huh?
an inside joke if there ever was one, akin to the upside down pentacle.
The correctly righted peace sign is a pictogram of a tree growing.
This can be none other than Brightstar.
I will gladly take the credit for helping to wake men up on these boards and in society in general, but no, I did not write that.
what an impotent trainwreck of a society.
3/4 of the country cannot stand the cabal in washington, yet nobody is lifting a finger to kick the demons out.
what will this lead to? armed civil war?
God forbid, but that seems to be the eventuality.