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That's what women want or at least are willing to make themselves comfortable with unless there is some abonormally attractive guy around who is desperately in love with only them and will do everything their way. Problem is men continue to want sex and sexual realtionships even if they have to settle for and make real compromises that cause them real problems with women who are no better than they are. This difference is really the source of all the conflict.