Quick question. WTF are you doing getting married in a Church if you don't take your vows seriously? Is a wedding all about the big Barbie layout and all the expensive, worthless crap involved, or is it about the relationship? Why don't you save yourself all that troublesome thinking regarding and cognitive dissonance about being a whore and just get married in Judge's chambers instead of acting like a wedding is just putting on an expensive and worthless show of affluence for your friends and family?

And to the LW, wake up already. You ARE a SLUT and a WHORE, just open up the dictionary and see for yourself:

slut (slŭt) n.

1.

1. A person, especially a woman, considered sexually promiscuous.

2. A woman prostitute.

2. A slovenly woman; a slattern.

whore noun,

verb, whored, whor·ing.

–noun

1. a woman who engages in promiscuous sexual intercourse, usually for money; prostitute; harlot; strumpet.

–verb (used without object)

2. to act as a whore.

3. to consort with whores.

–verb (used with object)

4. Obsolete. to make a whore of; corrupt; debauch.

Both of those are you. That is the reality of it. You spend your life keeping secrets that you know would completely change your naive husband's perception of you, and change them for the worst. You are a terrible and selfish person, and you can make up all the excuses and blame you want, but the reality is that you are a terrible, selfish person. It is all on you, not mommy and daddy, not your husband or the men who see you as the easy and guilt free piece of ass that you are (and make no mistake, that is how you are perceived, as nothing but an easy piece of ass, aka a whore). The sooner you wake up and figure that out the sooner you can do stop looking for excuses/reasons/blame and something about it. There is a reason why the truth hurts.

I really can't believe how many people claim that I am selfish for not telling my husband about these incidents. I personally think the most selfish thing to do would be to tell him. People who "confess" tend to do it for one purpose only--to alleviate their guilt and make themselves feel better. As I've said, I have no guilt about what I am doing. I really don't because nothing I am doing is directly affecting him (I am very careful in all respects).

Really? You really can't believe it? You are living in a relativistic fantasy land and have no clue what empathy or dignity are.

Putting aside the morality issue, so far the only reason given to stop is that I will get caught. But I disagree that my current situation is untenable.

Put aside the morality "issue"? The "morality issue" is the issue. WTF else is there? The fact that you are a complete relativist and morally bankrupt is the issue. You have no absolute standards, all you care about is how things are relative to your perspective. It has nothing to do with "science" or some objective truth that you are somehow missing.

It's not luck, it's skill, that has allowed me to do this since my teens.

And with this statement you tell me how proud of yourself you are and that you are addicted to proving to yourself that you've "still got it". You're addicted to your bad behavior. It gets you off. Too bad you didn't take up mountain climbing or extreme sports as a teen and get addicted to that, instead of getting addicted to whoring around behind your lover's back.

Are you keeping a secret from your lover?

1. Yes

2. No

If you answer 1, then you don't have a real relationship, you have a problem. There is a reason why people keep secrets, and no matter what they say, it is for their own benefit, most likely some sort of red flag or deal breaker that they want to keep under wraps. e.g. sleeping with multiple partners behind your lover's back, that one is usually a deal breaker.

Why don't you just tell him what is going on? Yeah right, lol, what a joke, just like every relationship you've been in since your teens.

Have fun being old, dried up, and alone. Enjoy the last half or your life in an old folk's home with no friends, no family, and indifferent attention from the staff.

That is fine with me. If she were a man I would tell her the same thing. It doesn't change the fact that the definitions fit.

It will come back to haunt her when she dries up. Then the harsh reality will set in. In the end her addiction to hedonism will leave her old, dried up, alone, unneeded, and unwanted.

Ron Paul is going to win the whole thing, just wait until the NH Primary, where you can expect anything from an upset to a landslide. Ron Paul is the only candidate willing to fight the Class War.

Then all these hacks that want to write him off and call him names can think of what to write on their resumes instead, when they wake up from their dream and see that Paul has crushed all of the other horses.

and @bushwacker00

TLDR. None of that stuff is new to Ron Paul supporters anyway. Paul's supporters use the net to discover his campaign and read for themselves, which is the reason they like him. It is all there for anyone to read. You obviously don't "get it" but it's a good thing Ron Paul does.

Ron Paul gets it. Tell your friends.