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Wednesday, April 12, 2006 12:00 AM

The happy hypocrite

I never cared that Caitlin Flanagan calls herself an at-home mother, even though she's a magazine writer with a staff of helpers. But now she's using her battle with cancer to denounce feminism and extol her traditional virtues -- and I've had it.

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  • Wednesday, April 12, 2006 11:41 AM

    It's all bull

    Editors like to try to gin up "Mommy wars" where none really exist to sell magazines. I know stay at homes, and they DON'T have nannies and housekeepers. They work very hard. Most people realize this is a decision that is personal, and usually dictated by less than ideal situations. Some women have to work, others have well paid flexible jobs they love. Other women have inflexible jobs and childcare costs outstrip their salaries. Some women are depressed by the lack of outsied interation, others thrive on it. Every family has to make the decision for itself.

    There is no Mommy War. There are a set of navel gazing, omsecure. Type A writers with judgemental natures who feel the need to create conflict to get published.

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