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Wednesday, April 12, 2006 12:00 AM

The happy hypocrite

I never cared that Caitlin Flanagan calls herself an at-home mother, even though she's a magazine writer with a staff of helpers. But now she's using her battle with cancer to denounce feminism and extol her traditional virtues -- and I've had it.

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  • Wednesday, April 12, 2006 01:05 PM

    cosmo-esque

    Why is this cosmo-esque? I read it fairly closely, and I remember nothing about "10 ways to make your man moan." Oh wait, I know: it's about WOMEN. And issues that are presumed (wrongly) to affect only women. And about feminism, though that's a topic not often tackled in the glossy pages of Cosmopolitan.

    I too am tired of articles about how hard it is to balance work and family. But that's because I'm also tired of the unequal distribution of the burden. Talk to me about high-quality, affordable child care, talk to me about reasonable working hours for both men AND women. Do not talk to me about nannies, hired help, or staying home full time being solutions; regardless of any ideological issues, they are NOT FEASIBLE for most families.

    We can't let books like Flanagan's go unchallenged.

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