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Wednesday, April 12, 2006 12:00 AM

The happy hypocrite

I never cared that Caitlin Flanagan calls herself an at-home mother, even though she's a magazine writer with a staff of helpers. But now she's using her battle with cancer to denounce feminism and extol her traditional virtues -- and I've had it.

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  • Friday, April 14, 2006 05:03 PM

    Don't forget about this....

    I was astounded that Ms. Flanagan is also declaring war on Planned Parenthood-- reluctantly, she says. (See http://www.theatlantic.com/doc/200605/letters/4 or the print version of the April Atlantic Monthly; and http://www.theatlantic.com/doc/200601/oral-sex or the printed January/February edition).

    She responds to a letter to the editor by saying:

    "What Planned Parenthood’s new president finds 'age-appropriate' I find morally repugnant...The site (www.teenwire.com) instructs kids on anal and oral sex; it tells boys that they can reduce nocturnal emissions by engaging in sex play with a partner; it includes a glossary of slang terms, which I have no desire to repeat here. Children are welcome to address questions to the teenwire.com experts..."

    Oh, scandal of scandals: Children! Asking questions about sex!

    Kudos, then, to Karen Pearl (Interim President of Planned Parenthood) for her measured reply. (also available at http://www.theatlantic.com/doc/200605/letters/4)

    Incidentally, I couldn’t find any instructions on anal or oral sex, or the glossary of slang terms, and – believe me—I looked. I did, however, get 10 out of 10 questions about the clitoris correct. Which might come as a surprise, or shock even, to several of my ex-girlfriends. (For the record, I regrettably must admit I’m 31, quite far from a teen.)

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