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Before having my two children, I was a successful professional, and I loved the challenges. After I had my son, I chose to stay home; I felt privileged to have that choice. I've loved that challenge as well. Feminism has brought at least some women (who have the means) a range of wonderful options. I don't know that being home full-time with my kids has improved their lives, but I know it has brought me great joy. Would most women love being able to do both, career and stay-at-home motherhood? Perhaps, but life is about choices and I don't need to criticize others' to enjoy and appreciate my own. I don't understand the need or popularity (if she is popular) of a writer like Caitlin Flanagan. It doesn't add to the discussion. I'd be more interested in those who can help solve the problems of children who have no adults in their lives, either parents or nannies, because of parents who don't have the time, inclination, or ability to care. Perhaps that's a better place for Ms. Flanagan to direct her efforts.
