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Is he not hip this week, or what?
She should not marry him. You will end up unhappy if you marry someone incompatible from you sexually. After the initial "in love" phase passes, you've got to have that sexual connection, or you will be tempted to stray or leave.
Beleive me, don't marry him. You will regret it.
Best column ever, Heather. We are a doomed culture, amusing ourselves into oblivion. Cheers!
But, this article (linked) made me feel more zen-like and accepting.
Deepak proposes that she represents a part of ourselves that we dislike. I feel he is correct. Read, and feel better here:
http://tinyurl.com/5z4p55