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She's already in trouble; his reaction has led her to conclude that her she has something to be ashamed of in the first place.
She should leave him right away, and find someone respectful, stable, and open-minded.
None of Alex's references to third wave feminism change that fact that his standards of right and wrong are completely wrapped up in his own insecurity. Basically, he can't handle the fact that a woman may have enjoyed a threesome with two other guys. That is entirely his problem.
First, you should know I am a guy. And as a guy, I totally reject your argument that men are entitled to primadonnaish sexual immaturity. Some guys are rational and open-minded. She should fine one.