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Tuesday, August 25, 2009 11:08 AM

indyconantidim

What is it like to be cringing in fear throughout your entire life?

You provide a good example of someone who is easily manipulated by people like Cheney, who wield fear in the way that Goering taught, to get people to go along with any atrocity.

It's sad.

Said Goering:

Naturally the common people don't want war; neither in Russia, nor in England, nor in America, nor in Germany. That is understood. But after all, it is the leaders of the country who determine policy, and it is always a simple matter to drag the people along, whether it is a democracy, or a fascist dictatorship, or a parliament, or a communist dictatorship. Voice or no voice, the people can always be brought to the bidding of the leaders. That is easy. All you have to do is to tell them they are being attacked, and denounce the pacifists for lack of patriotism and exposing the country to danger. It works the same in any country.
Tuesday, August 25, 2009 11:48 AM

Childlike coping mechanisms for fear

Since Glenn's last blog is awash with these symptoms, I thought it would be useful to review how maladaptive ways of dealing with fear are expressed:

Apart from personality traits, people also tend to develop habitual modes and methods of managing stress and coping with upsetting emotions. By and large, these habitual methods do help people to manage and defuse stressful situations they find themselves in, but they are not all equally efficient at this task. Some work better than others. While some really do succeed in helping people to manage upsetting emotion, the lesser quality methods generally end up causing more problems than they solve.

Perhaps not surprisingly, there is a relationship between people's emotional maturity and the sort of coping methods they prefer. Less emotionally mature people tend to prefer rather primitive and often inefficient coping methods , while more mature folks lean towards more sophisticated and more useful methods. The less mature methods also tend to have in common that their use is not premeditated or conscious in nature, but rather fairly reactive, not well thought out, and unconscious. As coping methods increase in maturity and sophistication, they become correspondingly more deliberate and conscious in nature, and also tend to be used more proactively, rather than simply reactively.

The most primitive of the defense mechanisms are considered to be primitive because they fundamentally rely on blatant misrepresentation or outright ignoring of reality in order to function. These mechanisms flourish in situations (and minds) where emotion trumps reason and impulsivity rules the day. Children use them naturally and normally, but then again, children are by definition emotionally immature and not held to a higher standard as are adults. When adults use these methods on a regular basis, it is an indication that their emotional development is at some level delayed.

Denial; an outright refusal or inability to accept some aspect of reality that is troubling. For example: "this thing has not happened" when it actually has.

Splitting; a person cannot stand the thought that someone might have both good and bad aspects, so they polarize their view of that person as someone who is "all good" or "all bad". Any evidence to the contrary is ignored. For example: "My boss is evil", after being let go from work, when in reality, the boss had no choice in the matter and was acting under orders herself. Splitting functions by way of Dissociation, which is an ability people have in varying amounts to be able to wall off certain experiences and not think about them.

Projection; a person's thought or emotion about another person, place or thing is too troubling to admit, and so, that thought or emotion is attributed to originate from that other person, place or thing. For example: "He hates me", when it is actually the speaker who hates. A variation on the theme of Projection is known as "Externalization". In Externalization, you blame others for your problems rather than owning up to any role you may play in causing them.

Acting out; an inability to be thoughtful about an impulse. The impulse is expressed directly without any reflection or consideration as to whether it is a good idea to do so. For example: a person attacks another person in a fit of anger without stopping to consider that this could seriously wound or disfigure that other person and/or possibly result in legal problems.

Displacement; An unacceptable feeling or thought about a person, place or thing is redirected towards a safer target. For example, it may feel unsafe to admit anger towards a parent, but it is perfectly safe to criticize the neighborhood he or she lives in. [Authoritarians seem fond of this, in directing their anger towards bloggers who reveal the truth about authority figures.]

Reaction Formation; You react to uncomfortable, unacceptable feelings or ideas that you have (but aren't quite conscious of really), by forming the opposite opinion. For example; you unconsciously hate your parent, but your experience is to the contrary; you are only aware of loving feelings for your parent [or Cheney or Limbo, etc.].

Full article at sig.

Tuesday, August 25, 2009 11:51 AM

woops

I meant "since the letter section of Glenn's last blog is awash with these symptoms..."

Tuesday, August 25, 2009 01:01 PM

bystander

You got that right! Holy crap, we have all had this discussion before, how the rightwing fearmongering has made people imagine the terr'ists as some kind of Mystical Superhuman Incarnation of Eeeeeeevil. A reminder of the preposterous discourse around the releasing of Gitmo prisoners at sig.

I suppose I should be quaking in my boots about the investigations and enabling those hideous MSIEs who are going to come get me in my home tonight, not to mention those lib'rals who are going to kill grandma, but I think I'll enjoy some apple slices with caramel dip and then take my dog to the park instead.

Wednesday, August 26, 2009 07:14 AM

Apologies to Salon

I flagged a wingnut yesterday for "unbearable stupidity."

Er, I suppose that's not a good enough reason to delete a post. Sorry about that.

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