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Friday, January 13, 2006 10:57 AM

MBA Not Necessary?

To the guy that said this, obviously you don't work in the business world. Almost all upper-managment positions have an MBA as a requirement. In the two large financial institutions that I've worked in, you can't even get an interview without an MBA. Check out the employment ads for the upper levels and you'll see that most have an MBA listed as either a requirement or a preferred degree.

That said, it's funny to me that this letter came in today since my husband starts his MBA program today. I can honestly say that I'm glad he's going, but I did have my reservations: it's expensive, it's stressful, I'm feeling left behind, I'm going to miss him while he's in class, studying, writing papers, I'm worried that I'll get stuck with all the household chores. And yet, I'm so happy for him because this is what he wants to do and it's what his career needs. I admit to freaking out when my husband was thinking about quitting work and going full time to school. Even though we certainly could afford it, I didn't want the burden (and risk) as the only income earner. Perhaps that is one of the husband's fears? In our case we compromised on a part-time program. LW and her husband need to find a compromise that works for both of them and you can't do that when one refuses to come to table with an open mind. Unless that happens it sounds like their marriage is headed for trouble.

Friday, January 13, 2006 07:02 AM
Original article: "Meet the Dinner Whores"

what would miss manners say?

I was always taught that the person extending the invitation picked the location and paid the bill. And the only thing that was expected was the pleasure of your company. If you don't want to pay for dinner, stop inviting people out for dinner!

Thursday, January 12, 2006 09:09 AM
Original article: Who made her cry?

sniffle

maybe she was bored to tears?

Friday, January 6, 2006 01:52 PM

Maybe there's a reason why women have married "up"

Because when you are already at the bottom the only way to go is up? In the past the majority of women haven't had the same opportunities to garner the wealth that men have. Up until the 1970's, women's two main options to gain wealth were via inheritance or marriage.

Wednesday, December 28, 2005 12:21 PM

now i know

why "Mr. A Single Man Speaks" is single.

Wednesday, December 21, 2005 10:39 AM

freebies for all from all

If the MA Public Health Council wants to promote breast feeding then they should provide free/discounted lactation consultants, breast pumps and nursing bras to new moms. And they should work to pass legislation that guarantees nursing rooms in public buildings and more time for new parents to stay at home with their children. Taking away the free formula is a bad idea especially for low income women that don't have access to breast feeding assistance or the financial resources to buy formula, pay the rent, buy food, etc. It's like taking away homeless shelters because we want to increase home ownership.

It's so disheartening to read all of these letters because of all the energy being wasted between tearing each other apart over bottle vs breast when we really should be focusing our efforts on real support for parents by having more leave from work, access to affordable health care, clean and safe nursing rooms, flexible work hours etc. But I guess it's just easier to judge and criticize.

Monday, December 19, 2005 10:59 AM

spend that billboard elsewhere

rather than spending money on a billboard, how about make sure that all gov't buildings have nursing rooms? or increase the amount of parental leave in the FMLA. that would be a better use of cash.

Monday, December 12, 2005 02:59 PM
Original article: Abortion and trauma

something to think about

maybe having an abortion wouldn't be so traumatic if it was easier to get one without fear of harassment or physical harm. which can last for years after you have the abortion. case in point, the police chief that was "outed" 15 years after he and his girlfriend had an abortion (http://www.salon.com/mwt/broadsheet/index.html?blog=/mwt/broadsheet/2005/12/07/fargo/index.html).

Wednesday, December 7, 2005 10:30 AM

Hey Jessica!

What about all of the heterosexual married parents that "ruin" their kids lives everyday? What should we do about them? Emotionally unavailable fathers, controlling mothers, overbearing sports-dads, germaphobic moms, workaholic daddies, depressed mommies...the list goes on and on. I'm sure for every one "raised by gays" kid that you bring up as example, I can find you 10 "raised by heteros" kids that are just as messed up. And of course it's ALWAYS their parents fault.

Wednesday, December 7, 2005 10:12 AM
Original article: Apple juice, straight up?

Bar babies

I had friends that brought their baby to our local bar all of the time. They were the 1st of our crowd to get knocked up so they didn't want to miss hanging out with the rest of us for happy hour. Granted where I live there are no true bars. Due to state laws, all establishments serving alcohol must also have a certain percentage of their sales in food. But still, they'd put the baby carrier up on the bar and knock back a few. And if we wanted to smoke we had to take turns going to the non-baby end of the bar. The kid was perfectly well behaved, tucked away in his sleeper with all the drunk people peeking in on him pinching his cheeks. We all thought it was cute at the time, but now that I'm considering having kids I look back and think "what the hell!?!"

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