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Another example of a hetero trying to tell us gays how to feel about Obama v Prop 8.
Talk to your husband about this. If he isn't receptive or seems unfeeling, then leave.
I don't see what he's complaining about. This whole, "I was ordered to..." is such a cop-out. It's very Nazi-ish. He made his bed and needs to lie in it.. with the lights on.
Your brother gave you room and board and just asked you to not sleep with his roommate. You did anyway. Maybe you should ask yourself what is wrong with you. Why is it that you were compelled to do the very act he asked you not to? Stop blaming him. Blame yourself. You can never go back.
Now you're paying for it. I have to say I'm not too upset about this Madoff stuff that happened. Gullible + greedy is a dangerous combination.
It's even sadder that you'll be looking down on him for the rest of his life. He doesn't deserve that.
Some people have actual problems.
This soldier's psychosis and inability to function or receive proper care is just karmic retribution for killing innocent Iraqis. It's the universe's way of evening things out.
Go to Lane Bryant or whatever. There aren't places for big guys to get cool clothes, so why get all pissy that American Apparel decided to help them out?
Who knew?
You know like food, shelter, clothing, disease, abuse, neglect, etc.
There are other people in the world besides yourself. Do something good for others and stop being so selfish and whiny.
He's gone. For good. The end. Get over it.
There's nothing new or interesting about it.
Just say you were doing research for a novel you're writing and the research didn't leave you enough time for work. Now you have finished researching the novel and you write in your spare time. You love literature.
Then write a book on your experiences.
As often as possible.
Boo hoo! My girlfriend and I have so much money. Boo hoo, my diamond-encrusted wallet doesn't fit in my pants. Boo hoo, one of our summer cabins needs some gardening help.
Sure, you may want money for college and to escape your situation. But first you have to put your life on the line for Mainstream America.
Bah.
If she can't handle criticism that's her problem, not yours.
So own up to that fact and get on with life.
It's hard work, and your sponsor is helping you. He's not there to massage your ego, he's there to be honest and get you through this. If you didn't have a problem you wouldn't be there so let the man do his job. Also your wife needs space too. Let her have it. Sweet Jesus.
It's that simple.
If you're slower than everyone, you're not being safe. You're being quite reckless actually.
Drive with the flow!
Wah! Wah! Wah!