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Wednesday, July 16, 2008 04:05 PM
Original article: So much for my happy ending

again I didn't say it was impossible for women to get turned down,

it took three tries for the women in the article to score. VERY VERY VERY FEW men could get an equivalently quick result in an equivalent situation. Again the question comes up, why all the hostility in addition to all the denial.

Wednesday, July 16, 2008 08:26 PM
Original article: "WTF" of the day

personally I've never had a problem with women not being tight enough

but maybe that's just me

Wednesday, July 16, 2008 08:31 PM

It's not the women who are unsatisfied without Viagra

That isn't always true.

Wednesday, July 16, 2008 08:37 PM

assuming that you will be working at mcdonalds for minimum wage all your life a case could be made that it's better to be doing that with a baby at 18

than with a baby at 30.

Wednesday, July 16, 2008 08:49 PM
Original article: So much for my happy ending

almost everybody feels at a social disadvantage and that they are not getting what they want but there is a more specific political reason why the "men and women are in the same position" line is maintained with such absurd vehemence

and that is that once you acknowledge that men and women are in a different position in ways that matter in this area it's much harder to avoid the possibility that some of the disagreements between them may be due to something other than male stupidity or a conspiracy to keep women down.

Thursday, July 17, 2008 12:36 PM
Original article: "WTF" of the day

Jee-zuzz: The Senior Anti-Sex League is comprised almost entirely of feminists.

Fundies make up a huge chunk of their membership too. The question is whether it is only the feminist members that do real damage because the fundies are part of an isolated subculture which nobody (except for the republican party, president, congress, etc) pays any attention to.

Thursday, July 17, 2008 12:45 PM
Original article: So much for my happy ending

If you betray that trust, even if 'they asked for it', then you probably shouldn't be in any position of power, because you lack the responsibility and impulse control to handle it.

The premise that sex between consenting adults is a betrayal of trust is the issue here. Lots of people simply don't believe that it is in most circumstances, or at least they disagree over when the "position of power" in question makes it impossible to give real consent. I have a difficult time feeling that the "power" a masseur has over you interferes in any way.

Thursday, July 17, 2008 02:47 PM

What PRECISELY is the problem with us not liking this ad?

Because it implies a desire to control the sexual behavior and even the thoughts of others.

Monday, July 21, 2008 03:39 PM

as their fellow sex police in the anti abortion movement well know, just because the law is ultimately against you

doesn't mean you can't force a lot of people to follow your beliefs or pay for not doing so, at least for a time.

Tuesday, July 22, 2008 05:46 PM
Original article: O'Really?

Oh, Bill. At least you don't need to worry about being covered for Viagra: You're already a dick.

I think he does need to worry because in fact he IS a COMPLETELY USELESS dick.

Tuesday, July 22, 2008 06:15 PM

Is it because women, more so than men, are balancing work and family obligations

this is sort of an odd way of desribing the fact that men have to earn money, no matter what, and women, because they can often rely on men, won't take just anything (the actual article made it unambiguously clear that this was in fact the situation for many women).

Tuesday, July 22, 2008 08:39 PM

EVEN Rex Reed!

i think you're in danger of getting you PC credentials revoked.

Wednesday, July 23, 2008 10:46 AM
Original article: "Fat Princess"

be as fat as you like WHEN

you pay all the extra medical costs/equipment costs/compensation-mitigation-for-all-that-money-could-have-been-used-for costs/etc/etc/ associated with your obesity yourself. AFTER you do that you can complain about persecution along with all your fellow drunks, drug addicts, smokers, and other similar persecuted victims.

Wednesday, July 23, 2008 11:05 AM

politically it just isn't posssible to advocate letting those who WERE UNQUESTIONABLY involved in the 9-11 attacks

off the hook. For this to be even considered the public would first have to be convinced that "letting the CURRENT incarnation of the Afghan taliban go" would NOT be letting 9-ll perpetrators "get away with it". Even if this is possible Obama is certainly not now in a position to make this case.

Wednesday, July 23, 2008 03:49 PM
Original article: "Fat Princess"

And no, that doesn't mean she's a sphere that rolls other units over, dumbasses.

Actually this would probably be a more effective way of promoting fat acceptance than shrieking about persecution and fat hatred while being hauled to and through your innumerable medical appointments with the aid of half a million dollars worth of specialized equipment and the services of six EMTs all provided to you by the fat hating pserecuting society that has the nerve to complain about having to provide these things because you didn't want to make the effort of shutting your pie hole and now you can't walk.

Wednesday, July 23, 2008 04:01 PM
Original article: "Fat Princess"

you inexplicably forgot to feature the NY times article on the new speciality of bariatric obstetrics

so now we will have a whole generation programmed in the womb to be obese.

Wednesday, July 23, 2008 04:24 PM
Original article: Reader letter of the day

it's always been pretty clear that both western "liberal" sex police (Sweden) and tradtional conservative sex police(everywhere)

have a lot in common and could potentially work together very well. The only real disagreement is whether men should have any enforcement power or whether all the decision making power in this role should be the exclusive province of women.

Wednesday, July 23, 2008 07:20 PM
Original article: Reader letter of the day

the eye only ones are kinda hot, but when they wrap everything but the face, like a nun,

they succeed in making ANY woman look ugly plus you don't have the identity problem so it's a win for everyone.

Wednesday, July 23, 2008 08:01 PM
Original article: Reader letter of the day

people should be free to wear white hoods anywhere they want to, and be entitled to defend themselves against anyone who tries to interfere

the fact is that the use of the veil is inherently coercive. Those who wear it and those who promote it's use intend to coerce compliance with the rules favored by those doing the promoting, if not from the entire society, yet, then from whoever they can reach. The example of the "tolerance" of western values in Islamic socieities is highly releveant: until a non authoritarian, non coerceive form of Islam exists societies have a right to defend themsleves against the coercive kind.

Wednesday, July 23, 2008 09:58 PM
Original article: Reader letter of the day

if there were a way to allow freedom to veil without also threatening the freedom of others veiling would be ok

but until something which doesn't currently exist in Islam does develop it isn't possible. Not in Turkey, not in France, not anywhere. I am VERY well aware that many veiled women are not victime of oppression but are attempting to perpetrate it.

Thursday, July 24, 2008 01:16 AM

I'm not sure we CAN stabalize and rebuild Afghanistan at a cost

that Americans are/will be willing to pay in a time frame that our political system and culture will understand and accept.

Thursday, July 24, 2008 01:34 AM
Original article: O'Really?

I think it's pretty "normal" from a biology and physiology to be less easily erect as one ages.

It's also "normal" to have increased occurence of senility and incontinence as we age but that doesn't mean that we regard them as physiologically "normal" acceptable states.

Thursday, July 24, 2008 09:24 PM

even alter can't be so clueless as to not understand the difference between being the named author of a blog and being an anonymous commenter on it

so obviously he KNOWS his argument is total crap and can only appear to be something else to those who really are COMPLETELY unaware and the much larger group of partisans who wish to be deceived (at least on this issue when their "side" is being supported).

Friday, July 25, 2008 12:35 PM

well glad we've cleared that up, women LOVE sex

and only incredibly ugly, incredibly stupid, incredibly obnoxious pigs (80% of the male population) have trouble.

Friday, July 25, 2008 01:00 PM
Original article: Quote of the day

so if ANY woman YOU are involved with is not interested then you are a horrible person

and or wallowing in the coddling of a society that LOVES men while she is crushed under the weight of a society that HATES women; if this were NOT the case her sex drive would be AT LEAST equal to yours.

Friday, July 25, 2008 01:01 PM

so if ANY woman YOU are involved with is not interested then you are a horrible person

and or wallowing in the coddling of a society that LOVES men while she is crushed under the weight of a society that HATES women; if this were NOT the case her sex drive would be AT LEAST equal to yours.

Friday, July 25, 2008 03:30 PM

of course you can win steve, it's simplicity itself.

ALL women are ALWAYS right about ALL things. What could be clearer?

Friday, July 25, 2008 09:20 PM

This isn't to say that I think male sexuality is bad, only that we need two sets of criteria here, not one.

This is exactly what so many ideological feminists fiercely resist, because once you establish that there are 2 widespread and meaningfully DIFFERENT BIOLOGICALLY BASED patterns which vary significantly by gender in their distrubtion you make it much harder to sell the idea that the emotional responses of ONE gender are always or nearly always the total or nearly total truth.

Friday, July 25, 2008 09:53 PM

and feminists have been trying to sell for 40 years the idea that anytime men see "things" such as, to pick a example at random, sex, differently than women

that men are either stupid, emotionally stunted or trying to oppress, abuse, etc etc, women.

Saturday, July 26, 2008 02:15 AM

Civility, on the other hand, might

or maybe not.

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