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I googled "jury of women" and rape and found this from Oct. 2008
"the jury of eight women and four men convicted the 25-year-old oil field worker on 12 felony counts involving the kidnapping and forcible sexual assault" http://www.bakersfield.com/hourly_news/story/586428.html
Aslo "jury of six women and six men also found Davis guilty of aggravated indecent assault, indecent assault and reckless endangerment" http://www.dailyamerican.com/articles/2008/10/24/news/news/news019.txt
I'm sure there's many more.
but according to this study, Helen should stick with acting and not flaunt her ignorance about human psychology:
" Male undergraduates had the most negative attitudes toward rape victims, and female professionals had the most favorable attitudes." Journal of Interpersonal Violence, Vol. 14, No. 9, 989-995 (1999)
http://jiv.sagepub.com/cgi/content/abstract/14/9/989
If it's in my DNA to not get along with other women then why are 90% of my friends other women?
If men are just indifferent to each other according to all the 'great philosophers' then why did Oedipus kill his father?
Sv I was SO impressed for about half a minute that you really had some insight into womens feelings about porn (limp dicks ARE uninteresting, and Playgirl totally dropped the ball, there) and then you start going on about how sex with a woman WHO CAN'T TALK TO YOU is great "especially for a guy." Can you hear yourself? You sound exactly like someone whose best relationship is likely to be with a DVD.
I can totally understand why someone would disavow any involvement with the backbiting, contradictory, and often offensive mess that is modern day feminism.
I was raised by a feminist, and she assures me that there was mass uprising and unity once, but particularly since I started reading feminist blogs I have felt completely alienated. "White feminists" are throwing POC under the bus, and stripping is the new bra burning, and we are way too cool to get excited over the prospect of the first female president.
I believe in equality between the sexes, which is the definition of feminism, but I am disgusted by the mess that 'organized' feminism has become.
but I'd rather gnaw off my own arm.
Carry on with your one-handed rationalizing.
if the whole corporate world is bending over backwards for women, then why was that case against Goodyear for paying a female employee less than her male counterparts just in the Supreme Court?
Thank you for illustrating perfectly what I can't stand about feminists. Do you feel like a bigger woman now that you've bashed some Steinem?
I'm sure it will be all about how silly and unrealistic the portrayal of the First Lady is. This is what's wrong with feminism today - apparently reducing an important female figure to the sum of her body parts doesn't bother 'feminists.'
The established courtship rules and rituals have been upended, and nothing has yet been established to replace them. As Tracy points out, though, this is not feminism's fault, and it is difficult to navigate the new playing field for women as well as men.
And the survival of the ass-hole-iest is being documented, hilariously (!) here:
http://www.hotchickswithdouchebags.com/
One of the oldies on that panel, Katha Pollitt, supported Obama in the primary. And one of the loudest young feminists, over at Pandagon, supported Edwards. But please don't let me get in the way of your generational resentment.
Meaningless sex - whatever. We all mature at different rates. But the whole, "I make money so I can bang hot chicks, screw their personalities" thing is REALLY, well, unattractive.
http://cityrag.blogs.com/main/2008/11/the-cult-of-dou.html
"Hedgie" are you in this lineup?? Fess up! You know that post about Valtrex was aimed at you - you should respond to the word Valtrex like it's your name. Your pick up line should be "hey, baby, I make lots of money, so my Valtrex prescription is always filled. Wanna f**k?"
http://dlisted.com/node/29364
Dick, was that you?
Seriously, though, SOME men have higher sex drives than some women - and yet many, many men are able to get along quite well with women and in society without copping huge resentments about not having access to willing sex partners 24/7. Why? 'Cuz a mature adult is one who has learned that he or she isn't going to get what they want 24/7, accepts that fact, and goes on about their life without a huge chip on their shoulder about it.
that's a whole lot of Guido. Maybe tooo much.
"sexual harassment, porn, and objectification," Dick what the hell kind of dates are you going on? I think I see the obstacle your running into, right here.
"a sex worker isn't trafficked, coerced, under a pimp's control or selling her body to pay her drug dealer," then maybe you should keep it in your pants. Unless you think getting off is more important than the welfare of another human being.
I 100% guarantee you that the majority of prostitutes are too busy trying getting the cash and getting a fix to "vet" potential johns. The whole 'not enough time to vet' argument is a red herring.
is that you get an opportunity to cool your heels and maybe even clear your head long enough to reassess what the hell it is you're doing. Rehabilitation in lieu of incarceration is a great opportunity for people with chemical dependency who get picked up for various things like theft or prostitution. Legalizing prostitution sounds to me like a well-intentioned way of saying "go ahead and self-destruct, we won't try to stop you or slow you down."
The 'crime' many johns are committing is self-centered apathy to the human misery they are often party to.