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John Anderson

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Friday, February 20, 2009 11:48 AM
Original article: Whitewashing Roman Polanski

my own experience

When I was a student in Los Angeles in the early 80's I had a hard time finding a place to live near campus. Eventually, I answered an ad to share a small apartment in Santa Monica. At this time I was around 20, but I was very young looking for my age.

The man who was looking for a "roommate" gave off a creepy vibe, but I took the place because I was desperate. After a few weeks, he confided in me that he really liked "younger men"...he showed me a huge list of people he had interviewed for the apartment, and told me that I should be really pleased that he picked me over all the others.

He also said that he usually ended up sleeping with the people he rented to...lucky me. Incidentally, this dude was a middle-school teacher. Imagine his surprise when I started sleeping with a foot-long pair of graphics arts scissors next to my bed.

He seemed genuinely hurt and angry a few days later when I loaded all my possessions into my small car, and left. I can't remember what he said, but he seemed to think that I had no right to just up and leave without somehow clearing it through him...like I was one of his students or something.

These people and their friends just don't get it. They think that their love is a good thing...but they are wrong. Their love is a bad thing...and when it crosses the line (like Polanski), it's a criminal thing.

Friday, February 20, 2009 01:11 PM
Original article: Whitewashing Roman Polanski

some juveniles are prosecuted as adults in order to protect potential future victims

Child rapists are also prosecuted in order to protect potential future victims.

Friday, February 20, 2009 01:14 PM
Original article: Whitewashing Roman Polanski

"Again, this does not justify rape."

this is the only part of your post that is even remotely worth reading.

Friday, February 20, 2009 01:28 PM

toxic military tech for civvies

I can't wait to walk down the street with my computer, night-vision goggles, gps, heads-up display, temperature-controlled jump suit with ballistic panels, and propeller beanie.

Friday, February 20, 2009 01:34 PM
Original article: Whitewashing Roman Polanski

if this article had been about incest/rape, there probably would have been a lot of outrage

As it happens, this article was about Roman Polanski.

Friday, February 20, 2009 01:46 PM
Original article: HP Not So Sure About EC2

this is funny

food metaphors for the cloud...isn't the cloud itself a metaphor?

Friday, February 20, 2009 01:52 PM

healthcare reform is mostly off the radar at Salon

they're going for the pagehits...lifestyle articles and such

Friday, February 20, 2009 01:58 PM
Original article: Damaged goods

one can be in favor of legalized abortion and still have a negative moral reaction to it

but of course you don't buy that...end of conversation. Another one-date wonder...

Friday, February 20, 2009 02:19 PM
Original article: Damaged goods

the dead fetus monologs

I had a girlfriend who missed a couple of periods...I was wondering if she was pregnant. Anyway, I asked about it later and she said everything was fine...I always suspected that she had an abortion.

Of course she was within her rights...that's not even an issue. But eventually we broke up.

The riot grrlz who say: hey Dick, none of your business...well, there's a lack of respect there, too.

Monday, February 23, 2009 11:45 AM

most people don't actually pay much attention to what other people say (witness the salon letters section)

you're annoying people because you aren't pretending to listen to them enough...it's that simple

Monday, February 23, 2009 11:53 AM

you'll need two different computers, with two separate net connections

one for work, one for surfing

Monday, February 23, 2009 11:59 AM

people have enough bandwidth for what they currently do

they will always have enough bandwidth for what they currently do.

Monday, February 23, 2009 12:28 PM

"open" is the "turbo"

don't really need it...don't really want it

Monday, February 23, 2009 12:30 PM

the new turbo that is

now I just need a better grammar checker

Monday, February 23, 2009 12:52 PM

key metric for any computing device

the ability to download porn

Monday, February 23, 2009 04:39 PM
Original article: Whalin' Palin

a possible explanation

David Peat, founder of the Pari Center in Italy and who holds a PhD in theoretical physics from the University of Liverpool, along with David Bohm, met with a number of Algonquin elders because of their process-based (verb-based) language. The scientists found that the thought processes of the Algonquin elders were in tune with what those particular scientists held to be a quantum reality rather than that of a classical reality.

-wikipedia

Monday, February 23, 2009 05:02 PM

do people actually waste time on this crap?

I guess so

Monday, February 23, 2009 05:04 PM

on what platform would you like your crap?

on the CrapPlatform, please

Monday, February 23, 2009 05:05 PM

is my current broadband adequate for crap?

no...please upgrade now

Monday, February 23, 2009 05:19 PM

HOW COULD JOKER NOT WIN???

he has the best scarey makeup and now he is dead. how could they not pick him, even for Best Weird Suit? Also batman had a COOL MOTORCYCLE for chasing that should have been best motorcycle in a dramatic role

oh Joker its not fair

Monday, February 23, 2009 06:18 PM

just never turn off your computer

that solves the boot problem

Monday, February 23, 2009 07:08 PM

not part of the pair-bonding dynamic

when I'm unemployed it just effects me...the presumption that gender conflict is inevitable for everyone who loses their job is irritating to say the least

Monday, February 23, 2009 07:12 PM

ask Jordan's Queen Noor in that viddy on the front page

that's it...maybe Queen Noor has the answer to this important question

Monday, February 23, 2009 07:13 PM

"apparently you have never tried to interest a woman in having sex with you while you are unemployed"

hey I'm not that stupid

Monday, February 23, 2009 07:30 PM

Chumby

the name is interesting...a bisexual pal? Or something to do with fish guts?

Monday, February 23, 2009 07:42 PM

Porkie's is great

also Stumpy Joe's, Pieface, The Pie of Incredible Circumference, Pimpie's, FishDisc, Old Jerry Jumble, Flesh Pie, Mama Carson's House of Pizza, and of course Jimmy's.

Monday, February 23, 2009 08:16 PM

who's going to do the chores

fighting, fighting, fighting about the dishes and the laundry and the vacuuming and cleaning the toilet...fighting about sex, fighting about money.

Always fighting about money.

I remember it well from some former life.

Tuesday, February 24, 2009 09:31 AM

Q: in the struggle for domestic dominance, who gets to clean the toilet?

A: the low economic status partner...men have lots of experience with low economic status partners, but women don't

when she's making 90k and you're on month ten of your "sabbatical"...let me know how that sharing is working out.

Tuesday, February 24, 2009 09:39 AM

I agree that cold pizza for breakfast is great

yum!

Tuesday, February 24, 2009 10:02 AM

she's sexy?

thanks for keeping me informed

Tuesday, February 24, 2009 11:01 AM

microsoft now wants everyone on client/server

therefor, client/server is good

Tuesday, February 24, 2009 11:24 AM

what bands does she like?

what is her favorite color?

does she like horses?

Tuesday, February 24, 2009 12:10 PM

cloud lock-in and BuddyPoke

i'm an early adopter - not

Tuesday, February 24, 2009 12:54 PM

The Wally Slumdog Batman Story

maybe next year

Tuesday, February 24, 2009 03:58 PM
Original article: The lesbian Joseph Smith

au contraire

the penis stands astride this "penisless society" like a giant circus clown

Tuesday, February 24, 2009 04:21 PM

recently I made a trip to a large urban area

A friend told me a story about a woman who employs her spouse as a personal assistant. Apparently it's not unheard of in this city. The fellow drives her to work, keeps her schedule current, and interfaces with tradesmen and other hired people. He is not allowed to make any decisions...all of that goes through her.

To me this is a much more interesting situation for feminist analysis than who is doing the dishes. It speaks to the commodification of marriage, and the idea that gender equality is unstable...and cannot be sustained.

Tuesday, February 24, 2009 04:37 PM

if you have to ask...

I was never in the military, but my dad was a veteran. When I was about thirty my life was not going that well financially, and I thought about signing up...

Basically you have to realize that the military is all about traveling to strange foreign lands, meeting exotic new people, and killing them.

Tuesday, February 24, 2009 04:52 PM

Maddow is a lesbian

and yet non-lesbians are attracted to her

is this ironic? or "ironic"?

Tuesday, February 24, 2009 05:08 PM

"someone will have to explain to me how, in a global economy, fiscal stimulus helps anyone in the aggregate when every country is just mutually borrowing from everyone else."

In the global economy, all countries are not created equal. The US still has tremendous productivity and is the "only game in town" for many global investors.

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